Help your Host
For many people, the best option is to stay with their host. Most arrangements come to an end because of one or more of the following factors:
a. Change of circumstances
b. Stress of hosting longer term
c. Financial concerns
d. Remote location with no transport
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Some of these are out of your control. However, there are things you can do to make it a better experience for you and your host.
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The key is to talk. If your English is not good, try using a language app (SayHi or Google Translate) or invite a bilingual friend round to help you with important discussions.
#1 The cost of living crisis
Energy bills have almost doubled since last winter and will rise again. Mortgage rates, petrol, food and daily costs have also increased over the last year. Many households are very worried and are taking steps to reduce their costs - less travel, turning the heating down, less cooking, cheaper food, keeping doors and windows closed. It costs 68p/h to run an oven, 58p/hour to boil a pan. For small dishes, the microwave is cheapest.
#2 Ask about Rent-a-Room
Hosts receive payments from the government, but for many this does not cover all of their extra costs of Hosting. It may be possible to switch to the Rent-a-Room scheme. This can be worth up to £625/month (tax free).
Talk to your host about whether this might help. We can help you make the switch.
#3 Notice the Differences
We are finding that many hosts and their guests have tension because of unspoken differences. Different ways of cooking or cleaning or using the fridge. Different bed times for children. Different ways of showing appreciation. Different approaches to day-to-day life. These little differences can build up over time. Talk about the differences you see. They do matter.
#4 Talk with your Host
Above all, find ways to communicate with your hosts. Being in the UK is an ideal opportunity to learn or improve your English - your hosts will appreciate any efforts to learn and have a go, even if you make mistakes. For more important conversations, see if you can invite a bilingual friend to help you. There is a link to SayHi here.
#6 Changing circumstances
Your circumstances might change. Your host's situation might change too. It is good to start thinking about how to prepare for a time after hosting. There are things you can do now to make it easier later - build up your credit rating, improve your English, find out more about your options. Talk with your host about their expectations. Read through some of the ideas for Housing.